Thursday, 2 April 2009

Hook Up vs. Lasting Love: The Choice is Yours

"Connection" - "friends with benefits" - "Booty Call"

These terms are only too familiar today the dating world. These words are for you? Have you in any way? If yes, how he felt the experience (s), both during and after? With mixed feelings at best. Depending on your age and gender, can be a little different answers to this question. Whatever the answer, this "experience" that dating is a way  may be useful if you think about what your relationship long-term goals are and what we really want a relationship.

What these terms mean?

"Connection" to sex. Normally not "date" in question.

"Friends of benefits" usually refers to two people who are "friends" who also have sex together. Again, there is a difference between what we have in common and All "from."

"Booty call" usually describes the Handling by a man (a woman) to another person for sexual exploitation. Sex is not the dinner, a movie or other "quality" time together, you get to know each other. It is only natural.

It aims to do the job (if po ') as a date? This has led to a new intimacy with one or more of you? If so, it is important to Respond to your needs and fits your values and your wishes and goals of the report.

Start with some basic questions such as:

Are comfortable with intimacy?

Are comfortable with a purely physical relationship?

I can be physically separated sentimental to someone at the same time?

How do I feel about myself when I get this behavior?

I do this or ask someone sincere to show their affection?

Monogamy and marriage is my goal?

If your answers reflect disagreement between what you hear, and what They do, it would be useful to explain the reasons for their behavior. If any of these families?

"It is more convenient

"Easy"

"Safe"

"It requires no commitment from mi

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